
You cannot afford to put this off.
If something happened to your parents tomorrow,
would you know what to do?
Would you know where the paperwork is, who to call,
what shape the house is in, what support they really need,
or what has been quietly slipping through the cracks?
Most families tell themselves they have time.
They don’t.
Not always.
The SAFE Plan gives adult children a clear way to prepare
for their parents’ home, health, and future before a crisis forces everyone into panic mode.
Because “we’ll figure it out later” is not a plan.
And “I wish we had talked about this sooner” is said far too often.
My parents were in their 60s, living "healthy", and doing the best they knew how. After losing them both unexpectedly a year apart, I wish we would've had more conversations about their wishes, where things were, and overall condition of their home, health, and finances. We didn't know what we didn't know and while consumed with grief, had a lot to learn and navigate through.
I got so many questions from my friends and friend's parents about what happens next and I realized my loss should be more families gain.
There are so many PROACTIVE things you can do, questions you should ask, and things you should get done LONG before any kind of crisis or trauma hits.
Take PROACTIVE action and make choices and decisions before you are forced to!
The conversations.
The paperwork.
The house.
The health changes.
The warning signs.
The responsibilities nobody has clearly talked through.
This is the stuff families avoid, delay, or
assume they will deal with later.
Until later turns into stress, confusion, and
decisions made under pressure.
The SAFE Plan helps adult children get clear on what is going on, what needs attention, and what needs to be handled
before a crisis makes everything harder.
So instead of scrambling to figure it out in the middle of a problem, your family has a clearer plan, better information,
and fewer painful surprises.
Most families don’t start planning until something happens. The SAFE Plan helps adult children prepare early so decisions aren’t made in panic.
Instead of wondering what to ask or where to start, the SAFE Plan walks you step-by-step through the key areas that impact long-term independence.
From home environment to important conversations and future planning, the toolkit helps families gather and organize what they need before an emergency.
When you understand the risks, the resources, and the next steps, you move from constant worry to confidence that your family is prepared.
No matter where you are on your journey,
there's a plan for you.
$37
For adult children who want to start organizing and planning on their own
A practical step-by-step toolkit that walks you through the most important areas families should think about before a crisis happens.
Includes checklists, conversation guides, and planning templates to help you understand potential risks and start preparing your parents' home, wellbeing, and future.
Perfect for families who want to start getting organized today.
$249
For adult children who want
clarity and direction
A 90 minute strategic planning session where we walk through the SAFE Framework together and identify the most important next steps for your family.
During this session we will:
• Assess your parents’ current situation
• Identify the top risks most families overlook
• Create a prioritized 30 / 60 / 90 day action plan
• Outline key conversations and decisions to prepare for
You’ll leave the session with a clear roadmap and confidence about what to do next.
Waitlist Open
For adult children who want ongoing support navigating aging parents
Some families want more than a single strategy session. They want a trusted guide as they navigate conversations, decisions, and unexpected situations.
CALM Conversations is designed for adult children who want continued support as they navigate midlife and family responsibilities.
This level of support may include:
• Ongoing strategy calls
• Guidance through challenging family dynamics
• Help navigating new choices or changes
Identifying environmental factors within the home that may impact mobility, accessibility, and long-term independence
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Helping adult children think through future scenarios, family roles, and key conversations that are often avoided until a crisis occurs.
Guides to help families gather and organize important information related to their parents' home, health, and future planning.
Encouraging proactive lifestyle and environmental choices that support long-term health, independence, and quality of life
The SAFE Plan Toolkit and related resources are designed for educational and planning purposes only.
Every family situation is unique, and the information provided should be used as a guide to help initiate conversations and identify areas that may require professional advice or additional support.
What I am not:
Your Parent Porter does not provide medical, legal,
financial, tax, or insurance advice.
We do not diagnose health conditions, provide medical recommendations, draft legal documents, or make financial planning decisions.
Families are encouraged to consult with licensed professionals such as physicians, attorneys, financial advisors, and other specialists for advice specific to their situation.

Turning my pain into passion, I founded Your Parent Porter after losing both of my parents within a year of each other and realizing how many small, preventable choices affect our ability to live well as we age and all the things I never thought to ask before losing them too soon. As a licensed real estate agent, not only did I experience first hand what it's like to have to deal with my family's home in another state, not knowing the market, home values, and issues other states experiences, I see many people struggle with their families home in Arizona the same way.
Let's make sure your family is SAFE and Prepared!
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